I have been a Facebook user since they first allowed non-college students to use the site. I remember being a freshman in high school when I first learned about Facebook, my brother came home from college for spring break and commented on the fact that I was using MySpace and told me “soon Facebook will allow everyone to make a page”. When I was a sophomore Facebook expanded away from just offering college students space on the site; now everyone could make a page. That was six years ago and Facebook has expanded dramatically; including businesses, the ability to make events and adding groups are just a few additions to the site since I first joined. I use Facebook predominately for learning about events and keeping in touch with close friends, primarily through groups. I know a lot of folks who use Facebook to promote their business, buy and trade thing via Facebook marketplace, share photos, play games, meet new people, etc.
In class we were instructed to start a new Facebook for a “business based” project. It was important to start a new Facebook page because one’s personal page may or may not have inappropriate materials; when creating a page for a business it’s best to keep a clean, wholesome image. Having said that, it’s best to keep all inappropriate materials off Facebook because there truly is no security on Facebook; if a person or company wants to see what’s on your page they will. A lot of companies now check prospective employees Facebook’s to see what sort of pictures/posts you have on your page; if they deem it “inappropriate” they will not hire you.
I have found that people take what is posted on Facebook very serious; too serious if you ask me. I no longer interact with people I don’t know extremely well on Facebook; because it can make future face to face encounters awkward. The biggest Facebook trap for a heterosexual male is the Facebook massager; you meet a pretty girl, friend her on Facebook, she accepts, you then “creep” her page and use the massager for a little chat. What the guy may think is flirty, funny and cute in a young ladies eyes probably is coming off as creepy, weird and unattractive. This is one of many rules of etiquette that should be taken in consideration. I have been a Camp Consular for many years and my first rule about Facebook is no campers can communicate with me; I have heard horror stories about young people getting “cyber bullied, abused” not that I would ever do something like that, but why even make it a possibility. Another good rule is don’t write anything on someone’s wall that you wouldn’t say to their face; nothing makes me more ashamed to be a product of the 21st century then internet drama. Another rule I follow is don’t friend or except friend request from someone you don’t know, chances are they want to sell you something or spam your page. I am seriously thinking about deleting my page because of these for mentioned reasons, you can come off like a total creep, employers look at it and you can’t help what people post about you , it is an insincere platform and should be called the antisocial network. I have a love hate relationship with Facebook, on one hand I love learning about, making fun events and staying in touch with close friends; on the other hand I don’t like all the judgment, bullying and abuse that takes place on the site.